23/09/2015

Grace is everywhere...

Grace is everywhere...

            When we read the book of Ezra (Ezra 6,7-8), we see how Ezra's conviction that Jews in exile were able to return to their own land because of the support of a well disposed, non Jewish ruler- king Darius. Although the Jews did not even favour contact with such people; in fact they refereed to them as dogs...and uncircumcised.
            As humans beings, many a times we have acted as if only some people could possibly do good to us and others not! But experience tells us that w all depend upon each other in many ways and that dependence crosses religious and family boundaries.
           Jesus points to something similar in Luke 8, 19-21 - when told his mother and brothers are trying to get in, he says that there is a deeper relation to him than that of blood. Happily for many, family members do provide support and encouragement to faith. Others, unfortunately, have experience of finding more sympathy and understanding outside the family.
            We discover in the course of growing up that compatibility and congeniality are not predictable in terms of family and background. We all need support and encouragement. We obstruct it by requiring that it come in a particular color or shape or from a particular source.
            Noting in our created world is incapable of being the channel for God's grace, illumination and support.

First Day of Fall...


Wednesday, September 23 - The First Day of Autumn (Autumnal Equinox) 2015

The garden of love is green without limit and yields many fruits other than sorrow or joy. Love is beyond either condition: without spring, without autumn, it is always fresh.

14/09/2015

The Cross +

The Cross +

   Today we celebrate the Triumph of the Cross. There are two aspects of the cross: sorrow and glory – a sign of contradiction and the source of our salvation.

"A housewife was busy doing the house chores when suddenly her husband came from behind embracing her tightly and carried her around the house lovingly. The woman surprisingly blurted out: “Hey sweetheart why the sudden affection?” To which the husband retorted: “Well, the priest today in his homily said that we have to carry our crosses daily with love.”

            What a wonderful application of Jesus’ words about loving our crosses. Wouldn’t it be nice if you embrace your husband/wife/friends/relatives/teachers/children instead of cursing them as your crosses in life? You can practically apply these to people you consider crosses in your lives. And you will see the transformation it will make in any of your relationships.

            What could possibly be our crosses? Uncharitable criticisms, insults, indifference, ingratitude, illness, disability, infidelity, endless tasks, unrewarding work, abandonment, etc.? Heed Jesus’ call about the cross as a blessing and life will be more bearable and meaningful. God bless.

Saint Gianna - Patron Saint of Mothers, Unborn Children...


Saint Gianna

Patron Saint of Mothers, Unborn Children and the World Meeting of Families

            Saint Gianna Beretta Molla (October 4, 1922 – April 28, 1962) was an Italian pediatrician, wife and mother who is best known for refusing both an abortion and a hysterectomy when she was pregnant with her fourth child, despite knowing that continuing with the pregnancy could result in her death. She was canonized as a Saint of the Catholic Church in 2004.

            Gianna Beretta Molla was born in Magenta, Italy as the tenth of thirteen children in her family, only nine of whom reached adulthood. When she was three, her family moved to Bergamo, and she grew up in the Lombardy region of Italy. In 1942, Gianna began her study of medicine in Milan. She received a medical diploma in 1949, and opened an office in Mesero, where she specialized in pediatrics.

In December 1954, Gianna met Pietro Molla, an engineer who worked in her office. They were officially engaged the following April, and they married in September 1955. They welcomed the births of their children Pierluigi, in 1956, Mariolina, in 1957, and Laura in 1959.

            In 1961, Gianna was pregnant again. During the second month, Gianna developed a fibroma on her uterus. After examination, the doctors gave her three choices: an abortion, a complete hysterectomy, or removal of only the fibroma. Gianna opted for the removal of the fibroma, wanting to preserve her child’s life.

            Gianna clearly expressed her wishes to her family saying, “This time it will be a difficult delivery, and they may have to save one or the other – I want them to save my baby.” On April 21, 1962, Holy Saturday of that year, Gianna went to the hospital, where her fourth child, Gianna Emanuela, was successfully delivered by Caesarean section. However, Gianna continued to have severe pain, and died of septic peritonitis 7 days after the birth.

            Gianna was beatified by Pope John Paul II on April 24, 1994, and canonized on May 16, 2004. Gianna’s husband Pietro, and their children Laura, Pierluigi & Gianna, were present at the canonization ceremony, the first time in the history of the Church that a husband witnessed his wife’s canonization. In his homily at her canonization Mass, Pope John Paul II called Gianna “a simple, but more than ever, significant messenger of divine love.”

Fun Facts
            The miracle recognized by the Catholic Church to canonize Gianna Molla involved a mother, Elizabeth Comparini, who had complications around her 16th week of pregnancy. She prayed to Gianna Molla, asker for her intercession in the life of her child, who was healthy when delivered despite the premature date.

            Saint Gianna is the inspiration behind the Gianna Center in New York City. It is the first pro-life, Catholic healthcare center for women in New York. The Gianna Center provides primary care with specialized gynecologic care.

Prayers

            God our Father we praise You and we bless you because in Saint Gianna Beretta Molla you have given us one who witnessed to the Gospel as a young women, as a wife, as a mother, and as a doctor. We thank you because through the gift of her life we can learn to welcome and honour every human person. Holy Spirit, Source of every perfection, give us wisdom, intelligence, and courage so that, following the example of Saint Gianna and through her intercession, we may know how to place ourselves at the service of each person we meet in our personal, family and professional lives, and thus grow in love and holiness. Amen.

Quote

Love and sacrifice are closely linked, like the sun and the light. We cannot love without suffering and we cannot suffer without love – Saint Gianna.

24/08/2015

Never trust an untested Person...

Never trust an untested Person...
            The Eagle tests before it trusts. When a female eagle meets a male and they want to mate, she flies down to earth with the male pursuing her and she picks a twig. She flies back into the air with the male pursuing her. Once she has reached a height high enough for her, she lets the twig fall to the ground and watches it as it falls. The male chases after the twig. The faster it falls, the faster he chases it. He has to catch it before it falls to the ground. He then brings it back to the female eagle. The female eagle grabs the twig and flies to a higher altitude and then drops the twig for the male to chase. This goes on for hours, with the height increasing until the female eagle is assured that the male eagle has mastered the art of catching the twig which shows commitment. Then and only then, will she allow him to mate with her.
           Leaving the animal kingdom for human, commitment is too expressed better in this passage of the bible: Naomi said, “See now! Your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and her god. Go back after your sister-in-law!" But Ruth said, “Do not ask me to abandon or forsake you! For wherever you go, I will go, wherever you lodge I will lodge,
your people shall be my people, and your God my God
.” 1 Ruth 1:1, 3-6, 14b-16, 22.
          Whether in private life or in business, one should test commitment of people intended for partnership.

20/08/2015

The Power of Ideas and Words...Advice to men/women!

The Power of Ideas and Words...Advice to men/women!
            Words are the easiest and most common form of communication. Great preachers have inspired saints. Great words when written, last and can be read and reread. Words are wonderful things that please the ear and the mind. More important, good and kind words, when spoken at the right time, can heal a wounded heart. As somebody had said that, words are also the first and easiest means of communication with God. This week I was reading a book by Myles Munroe, "The Purpose and Power of Love & Marriage", of which I came across these words and ideas he puts across. I could not go without sharing them:

  1. “God did not create woman from man’s head, that he should command her, nor from his feet, that she should be his slave, but rather from his side that she should be near his heart.”
  2. "A woman may be beautiful but have poor character. A man may be a business genius, making money left and right, but lack common courtesy, sensitivity, and compassion.”
  3. “The first basic need of a male is sexual fulfillment; for a female, affection. The second most basic need of a male is recreational companionship; for a female, communication and conversation. The third basic need of a male in a relationship is an attractive woman; for a woman, honesty and openness. The fourth basic need of a male is domestic support; for a female, financial support. The fifth basic need of a male is admiration and respect; for a woman, family commitment.”
  4. “Here are a few important principles to remember with regard to the giving and receiving between males and females. When a male demands, a female reacts; she doesn’t respond. When a male gives, a female responds. When a male commits, a female submits. Nothing is more precious to a female than a committed male. Nothing is no more depressing to a female than an uncommitted male. Here’s the secret, guys: If you want a submitted female, be a committed male. It’s that simple. When a male abuses, a female refuses. Whenever a man abuses a woman, she refuses to respond. When a male shares, a female cares. If you find a man who is willing to share with the woman in his life, you will find a woman who is willing to care for her man. When a male leads, a female follows. When a man carries out his God-given responsibility for leadership, a woman responds by following his lead. Leadership does not mean being bossy, always telling others what to do. No, leadership means going ahead, not putting others in the front. Good leaders lead by example, not by decree. Jesus led by example, and so did Moses, Peter, Paul, and all the other great leaders in the Bible. Leading by example means doing ourselves the things we wish others to do.”

Understanding Envy and Jealousy...

Understanding Envy and Jealousy...

Are you envious because I am generous? Mt 20:1-16:

            Generosity means that we rejoice in the success and good fortune of others. And what is envy? “Envy,” somebody said, “is a kind of spiritual sickness that restricts the heart so that it cannot rejoice in the good of others, much less, gives to them. Envy is a two-person situation whereas jealousy is a three-person situation. Envy is a reaction to lacking something. Jealousy is a reaction to the threat of losing something (usually someone). Envy occurs when we lack a desired attribute enjoyed by another. Jealousy occurs when something we already possess (usually a special relationship) is threatened by a third person.
            So why the confusion? One problem is an unfortunate sematic ambiguity with the word “jealousy” (but NOT with the word “envy”). If you ask people to describe a situation in which they felt jealous, they are as likely to describe an experience of envy (e.g., "I wished I had my friend's good looks") as of jealousy (e.g., "my girlfriend danced with an attractive guy"). Naturally, this creates a sense that jealousy and envy are very similar—even though they are actually quite different.

God is Jealous
God is also jealous but it’s not exactly the same as human jealousy because God is jealous for the right reasons as we read about in Deuteronomy 4:23-24 “Take care, lest you forget the covenant of the Lord your God, which he made with you, and make a carved image, the form of anything that the Lord your God has forbidden you.  For the Lord your God is a consuming fire, a jealous God.”  The Hebrew word for jealous in this verse is “qanna’” which means “jealous only for God” so God’s jealous is for our own good.  He is jealous when we make an idol that competes or takes the place of where God should be in our lives…that is first and foremost.  Money, family, work, friends, sports, and even Whatsapp or Facebook can become an idol in our lives.  The saying that our hearts are idol factories have been attributed to John Calvin, although I was unable to document this, it’s still true.  The human heart is bent to perpetually forge idols of numerous things and people. God wants us to put Him first and when we do, God promises to provide for all of our needs (Matt 6:33). Jesus said that we should “love the Lord God with all the heart, mind, soul and strength” (Mark 12:30).
            However if you have the predisposition of jealousy or envy, you are not alone.  The human heart is bent toward material things and lusts of the heart.  God is the only one Who can change the human heart (Prov 21:1). 
 
The Sins of the Heart:
H – Hatred
E – Envy
A – Anger
R – Resentment
T – Timidity

“On Death and Dying“

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